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December 11, 2003

tips for the holidays

The holiday season is a perfect time for reflection on the true meaning of happiness and what contributes to it.  This means it’s also the perfect season for self-loathing and for sticking things in the oven other than turkeys.  Holistic therapist and tampon designer, Dr. Lilith Light-Day, offers these13 tips for promoting tranquility, self-actualization, and housework avoidance:

  • Spend a conscious moment listing and appreciating your personal gifts, talents, and contributions.  Unless you have a gift for delusion and a talent for list-making, this project should require only a few seconds of your time.
  • Spend another conscious moment listing all the good things you already have.  WARNING: Do not spend a conscious moment listing all the good things your neighbor already has.
  • One by one, list situations in your life that are annoying, difficult, or depressing.  In 4-6 weeks, you’ll be ready to ask yourself what those situations might teach you.  For example, they may teach you that children are overrated or that life is completely devoid of meaning.
  • For a quick blues buster, think about the people closest to you, how much you love them, and how much they love you.  Then think about why it is that you met them in a bar only the night before.
  • If you have pets, allow yourself to soak in the unconditional love they give you so willingly and generously.  Follow this by soaking up the puddle of urine your pet deposited on your brand-new carpet.
  • Start making eye contact with acquaintances, and look for signs of love in their eyes.  Look also for signs of syphilis.
  • When you find yourself comparing your life to someone else’s, stop.  Then contemplate why you are unable to heed warnings. (See Tip #2)
  • When you feel fearful, practice having hope and looking forward to the future.  If this practice effectively erases your future, you may reasonably conclude you were hopeless.
  • Take pride in things you do, and consciously congratulate yourself.  Treat yourself to casual sex with healthy acquaintances with whom you have made eye contact.
  • Be kind to your body and be less critical of your missteps.  Better yet, give others the opportunity to be kind to your body.
  • Be less critical of others, especially that whining wanker in the adjoining cubicle.
  • Take advantage of small opportunities to do good, from volunteering to holding your best friend’s stash while his parents are visiting.
  • If you catch yourself gossiping or speaking in negative terms, stop midsentence and consider the plight of your boss whose untreatable impotence led to his secret life as a cross-dresser, holistic therapist, and tampon designer.
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